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The Business of Love: Creating a $1M Elite Matchmaking Empire - Amber Lee #173

In this Bitesize episode, Amber Lee shares how a near-death cardiac arrest became the wake-up call to launch her own firm, why self-awareness is the #1 predictor of dating success, and how real compatibility goes far beyond a great photo or a perfect résumé. From attachment styles to the quiet biases of wealth and status, this is a masterclass in modern matchmaking — and building a relationship that lasts.Amber Lee is the co-founder of Select Date Society, a boutique matchmaking firm serving high-achieving and high-profile clients with a 90% success rate. Trained by the Global Love Institute and the Gottman Institute, Amber blends rigorous vetting with relational science to create matches that last.
https://selectdatesociety.com/about
 
About the Host
Paul Ryan is an eight-figure CEO, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast. Paul works with seasoned entrepreneurs to help them clarify what’s next and align their life and business around what truly matters.
https://pauljryan.net
Work With Paul
Paul helps seasoned entrepreneurs gain clarity, reduce overwhelm, and design a life and business that feels aligned—not just successful.
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The Inner Mentor Series (3): The Lie We All Believe #172

There’s a quiet voice that shows up at the worst possible moments — just before you step forward, just before you do something brave. It whispers, “I’m not good enough.” In this episode of The Inner Mentor Series, Paul explores the lie most of us believe about ourselves and why imposter syndrome doesn’t disappear with success. Drawing on conversations with seasoned CEOs and his own experience stepping onto a stage outside his comfort zone, he reveals why self-doubt is often a sign of growth — not inadequacy.
About the HostPaul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast.👉 https://pauljryan.net/
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How to Calm Your Nervous System Fast – Sarah Tobin #171

In this episode, Paul sits down with EFT practitioner, trainer, and author Sarah Tobin to demystify EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), often called “tapping,” for complete beginners. Sarah explains tapping as a self-administered, body-based tool designed to calm the nervous system—helping switch off fight/flight/freeze so we can return to grounded neutrality (and sometimes even genuine positivity). She unpacks the core idea that emotions are “energy in motion,” and that when emotions aren’t fully processed—especially in childhood—they can become stuck and later show up as chronic stress, repeating patterns, limiting beliefs, or even physical symptoms.
 
About the Guest
Sarah Tobin is an EFT (tapping) practitioner and trainer, as well as an author and speaker. Her work focuses on helping people regulate their nervous system, safely process stored emotion, and shift the beliefs and patterns that keep them stuck. She’s also the creator of wisdom tools including her book Tapping Into You and The Rainbow Oracle deck. 
https://www.tappingwithsarahtobin.com/
 
About the HostPaul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast.👉 https://pauljryan.net/
 
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Bitesize: Greatness is Within You: Stop Playing Small - Dan Metcalfe #170

Bitesize: Why You’re Born Superhuman (You Just Forgot) -  Dan Metcalfe
In this powerful bite-size conversation, Dan Metcalfe shares a journey that sounds like fiction—but isn’t. From being scouted by Crystal Palace and trained under Brian Clough, to dancing in the West End in Andrew Lloyd Webber productions, to fracturing his spine on stage in Las Vegas and being told he may never recover—Dan’s story is about identity, resilience, and choice.
Paralyzed, facing a system that would have preferred to manage him rather than restore him, Dan made a decision: he would not become a statistic. He would become the hero of his own life. What followed was not instant inspiration—but fear, anger, legal battles, and a slow, determined fight back. He began coaching football from a wheelchair. He rebuilt himself physically. And ten years later, he stood on the start line of Ironman Canada—not to prove he was the fastest, but to prove he could step forward again.
About the Guest
Dan Metcalfe is a speaker, coach, and performance mentor known for his “Born Superhuman” philosophy—helping individuals and teams reframe adversity, unlock resilience, and take ownership of their next level of growth.
 
Links to full episode:  
https://youtu.be/E8QJcCrTUFY?si=7CC29uzJ0jqiIYiY
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6ZHDlZZiLdMNCNOE4oCF8q?si=POx4iJWjT8acW6blOVD8dg
 
About the HostPaul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast.👉 https://pauljryan.net/
Work With PaulYou can book a discovery call with Paul here:https://calendly.com/inner-entrepreneur-podcast/discovery-call-with-paul-ryan

The Inner Mentor Series (2): Listen to This Before You Hit Burnout #169

In this episode of The Inner Mentor Series, Paul explores a powerful but uncomfortable question: how are you measuring success — and is that measurement quietly shaping your life? Through two contrasting entrepreneur stories and his own wake-up moment, he challenges the default scoreboard of money, scale, and status, and invites you to consider a broader definition that includes peace of mind, alignment, health, relationships, and fulfillment. Because you can be winning externally while losing internally — and the scoreboard you choose will ultimately determine the life you live
About the HostPaul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast.👉 https://pauljryan.net/
Work With PaulYou can book a discovery call with Paul here:👉 https://calendly.com/inner-entrepreneur-podcast/discovery-call-with-paul-ryan
 
 
 

Life in a U.S. Maximum-Security Prison - Stacey Putka #168

In this episode, Paul sits down with Stacey Putka — and the conversation begins with a line most podcast intros never get to use: they met in prison. Paul shares what it was like entering Arkansas Valley Correctional Facility: handing over his phone and passport, being reduced to a badge number, and feeling that subtle loss of control that incarcerated people live with every day. Together, they unpack the emotional impact of walking into a room full of men serving serious sentences and discovering something unexpectedly human — real presence, eye contact, openness, and a level of vulnerability that challenged every stereotype.
Stacey explains why she founded Breakthrough: because punishment alone doesn’t create healing, accountability, or safer communities. They tackle the hardest question head-on — are some people simply “bad”? — and Stacey offers a deeper framework: holding two truths at once (real harm was done, and real change is possible), while prioritizing accountability and protecting future victims through transformation.
About the Guest
Stacey Poka is the founder and Executive Director of Breakthrough, a U.S.-based nonprofit that delivers transformational programming inside prisons and provides practical, emotional, and community support after release. 
https://timetobreakthrough.org/about-us/
About the Host
Paul Ryan is an eight-figure CEO and the host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast, where he explores what’s really going on beneath the surface of success — purpose, identity, values, leadership, and the inner work that shapes the outer results.
https://pauljryan.net/
Work with Paul: Paul works with seasoned entrepreneurs to clarify what’s next and align their life and business around what matters most.
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Bitesize: The Power of Slow: Why Doing Less Changes Everything | Carl Honoré #167

In this bite-sized  episode, Paul sits down with Carl Honoré, the voice behind the global Slow Movement, to challenge one of modern life’s most damaging assumptions: that faster is always better. Carl reframes “slow” not as laziness or withdrawal from ambition, but as the discipline of finding the right speed for the task at hand. Drawing on neuroscience, culture, and everyday experience, he explains why multitasking is a productivity myth, how monotasking actually leads to better results, and why slowing down improves focus, creativity, relationships, and wellbeing — often while helping us get more done, not less.
The conversation explores how constant acceleration is reshaping our brains, our work, and even our art — from shorter attention spans to the erosion of deep thinking. Carl also shares his own wake-up moment as a parent, the origin story behind In Praise of Slow, and why so many people tell him his work gave them “permission” to slow down. From mindful walking to cultural shifts around technology and boundaries at work, this episode is a powerful reminder that slow isn’t something we need to invent — it’s something we need to reclaim.
About the GuestCarl Honoré is a bestselling author, speaker, and leading advocate of the global Slow Movement. His books, including In Praise of Slow, have been translated into dozens of languages, and his TED Talks have been viewed millions of times worldwide.👉 https://www.carlhonore.com/
About the HostPaul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast.👉 https://pauljryan.net/
Work With PaulYou can book a discovery call with Paul here:👉 https://calendly.com/inner-entrepreneur-podcast/discovery-call-with-paul-ryan

The Inner Mentor Series (1): The Day I Met the Man I Never Want to Become #166

In this first Inner Mentor Series episode, Paul shares the pivotal experience that quietly reshaped the course of his life. Twenty years ago, despite outward success, he felt trapped in a business and life that drained him—until a last-minute decision to attend a weekend event in London changed everything. What began with skepticism and a firewalk evolved into a far deeper reckoning: a visceral confrontation with the future version of himself he was becoming, one of quiet misery, the other of purpose and fulfillment—Paul made a choice that would demand far more courage than he expected.
 
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About the HostPaul Ryan is an 8-figure CEO, mentor, and host of The Inner Entrepreneur Podcast. Through the Inner Mentor Series, Paul shares personal stories and hard-won lessons from decades in business and personal development, helping entrepreneurs design lives of clarity, purpose, and fulfillment.
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How Leaders Unknowingly Build Toxic Workplaces - Kyle McDowell #165

What It Really Takes to Change Company Culture - Kyle McDowell #165
In this episode, Paul sits down with leadership author and culture-change advocate Kyle McDowell to unpack a hard truth: many “successful” corporate environments are quietly toxic—and leaders often help create the very dysfunction they later complain about.
Kyle shares how, after decades in senior Fortune-level roles leading tens of thousands of people, he hit a point of apathy, burnout, and personal cost that forced a reckoning. The turning point wasn’t a new strategy—it was a new way of leading: human connection, real accountability, and the courage to stop rewarding fear-based results-at-all-costs leadership.
 
About the Guest
Kyle McDowell is a leadership speaker, consultant, and author of Begin With We, best known for his “10 We’s”—a set of behavioral principles designed to build cultures of accountability, trust, and excellence. 
https://kylemcdowellinc.com/
About the Host
Paul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and podcaster.  https://pauljryan.net/
Work With Paul
You can book a discovery call with Paul here: 👉 https://calendly.com/inner-entrepreneur-podcast/discovery-call-with-paul-ryan

Bitesize: How Top CEO's Actually Make Decisions - Jack Black #164

In this bite-size conversation, Paul sits down with Jack Black, founder of Mindstore, to explore the real power of thought in entrepreneurship — beyond clichés and “wishful” manifestation. Drawing on nearly 35 years of experience working with business leaders around the world, Jack explains how thoughts either reinforce limiting beliefs or help us grow, adapt, and find solutions under pressure. He challenges the idea that success comes from passive visualisation, arguing instead for disciplined thinking, awareness, and practical mental tools grounded in science.
About the Guest
Jack Black is the founder of Mindstore and a globally recognised expert in the psychology of success, mindset, and performance. 
About the Host
Paul Ryan is a CEO, 8-figure business owner, mentor, and podcaster.  https://pauljryan.net/
Work With Paul: Paul works with seasoned entrepreneurs to clarify what’s next and align their life and business around what matters most.
You can book a discovery call with Paul here: 👉 https://calendly.com/inner-entrepreneur-podcast/discovery-call-with-paul-ryan